It’s Just..
Posted on November 23rd, 2007. Filed under: Friends & Family, Love & Relationships.I really like this guy. Normally I don’t like types like him (I’m not entirely sure if I have a type to begin with), but I don’t know, I really feel something. I hate how I’m always so uncertain with my blogging. It gives out an indecisive side of me which I know I don’t have in real life but it seems to reflect on the words which I choose to implement in this blog. I feel sad.
It’s been a while since I liked a guy this much. I like the small things he says which make me smile, his dimples which are amazingly deep when he smiles, and his calm disposition which kind of takes all your problems away. Last night I went clubbing with a couple of friends and he asked to come along. My friends obviously knew I liked him, they were extremely accommodating and made him feel right at home with them. I love my friends to death.
I just wanted to take this out. I feel the need to let it out of my system. Last night I was practically rolling on the floor because I couldn’t stop the fluttering (shit this is cheesy). But how can you expect something when you’re not sure whether the person likes you back or not? I don’t know. I don’t know. I don’t know.
I hate this.
November 23rd, 2007 at 11:35 pm
this usually happens. when u know you’re being very cheesy but u don’t care. that’s ok. siguro don’t be cheesy na lang every day. Ü
November 23rd, 2007 at 11:46 pm
But I like cheesy mayonnaise. You know, cheese pimiento spread on crackers?
Ah, so you’ve got the love/lust/like bug.
As for choosing your words carefully on your blog… it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re indecisive… I mean, every blogger is a bit like that… because we’re all putting a piece of ourselves out there (digitally, anyway) for everyone to… well, pick apart, judge, understand/misunderstand, etc.
Transparency in blogging has a price. But I always maintain that we are not our blogs. It’s just a little piece of ourselves we put out there. Not the whole package. Not really.
November 23rd, 2007 at 11:55 pm
Ph that feeling…I don’t really know how you could find out whether he likes you in that way or not. Anyway, if you’re feeling the way you do, he pretty much guessed. It’s impossible not to as our bodies spread hormones or something along those lines when we’re feeling the “butterflies in the stomach”.
If he asked to come along it could be a hint too
Hope this turns out fantastic for you.
November 24th, 2007 at 1:36 am
Aww, the butterfly feeling. I love the butterfly feeling.
It might be a little to early to really tell if he likes you. Keep interacting with him and then get some friends’ opinions on the situation. It’s usually those “outside” of the relationship that can see things the clearest, unfortunately. :P
I hope everything works out for the best between you two!
@ Regina: Our bodies spread hormones when we’re feeling that? Really? I didn’t know that!
November 24th, 2007 at 9:58 am
I don’t know either. I hate it, too
November 24th, 2007 at 10:26 am
Awwww… I love it when the people on my blogroll have crushes [is "crush" the right word for what you have?], it’s so cute.
And yes, I know what you mean. And everyone hates it. And loves it at the same time. Hormones can be evil, evil things.
Watch what happens, keep us posted! YIKEE
November 24th, 2007 at 11:41 am
Right now I’m snooping on your facebook pikshurs and looking for a man with dimples. LOOLZ
November 24th, 2007 at 12:08 pm
oooh. you really do like him.
i hate that feeling too. it makes me feel sick. literally sick. but that’s okay, nothing beats the kilig moments.
November 24th, 2007 at 12:37 pm
If you want to know if he likes you, don’t let him know that you like him! Coz then he’ll start making you think you like him as it makes him feel good about himself, and you’ll just end up very confused!
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Reply: I know what you mean Kat! Currently I’m letting him do all the approaching and everything, just sitting here waiting in vain. Eeeek. But I can handle it, hopefully =)
November 24th, 2007 at 5:08 pm
I’m pretty much going thru the same thing.. and yeah, it sure does suck. Hay. It’s like your giving and never get anything in return. Oh well, good luck na lang.
November 24th, 2007 at 7:04 pm
I know the feeling since I have a crush in school that I’m shy approaching to. Infatuation makes oneself occupy the gray area of courage and fear. I guess I think time will tell me when I’m going to stand up and take the chance. Or will “that time” really come?
Wait… I’m waiting for the right time because I don’t want to act like a stalker. LOL. Unlike those guys who grab a beautiful girl right away like a cheetah, I’m methodical in a way. I wait for the time and after that, I do the necessary measures. It’s all about good timing.
November 24th, 2007 at 8:11 pm
‘Di mo malalaman kung gusto ka rin nya until you ask him pero ‘wagggggg! I’m not good at this really. :P
November 25th, 2007 at 1:27 am
I hate not knowing whether or not someone likes you back. It’s probably the reason I’ve never had a real relationship: because I hate making a move if I don’t know.
November 25th, 2007 at 7:03 pm
I love that butterfly feeling when you like someone - it never fails to make me smile and feel all warm and fuzzy.
As for the knowing if he likes you - just bite the bullet and ask him out; he can only say yes or no and at the end of the day, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain *shrugs*
November 26th, 2007 at 10:30 am
Aww, butterflies! Definitely a fun feeling. I’d say give it some time, and see if it develops, and then go for it and ask him out. *nod*
I’m in the same boat. *sigh*
November 26th, 2007 at 2:09 pm
wow
inloved
wakekeke
just in time for christmas
November 26th, 2007 at 5:21 pm
Well, that’s love for ya.
Sounds exactly like most people experience it.
Frustrating, isn’t it?
November 27th, 2007 at 4:40 am
I hate that feeling. ;[
Been there done that and it sucked for me.
I had a crush on this certain numb guy. *gah*
I was literally obsessed with him, all I could talk about was him.
We texted. We talked. But nothing special happened between us.
It was tough for me because the feeling [The one way thing] wasn’t pleasant.
And it’s like, I’m getting my dead hopes high up in the air.
Waiting for him to take a second look at me and realize that I’m something special.
But nope. Nothing like that happened.
But…
We’re friends.
Just friends.
And I think I’m happy about that.
*sorry for the long speech*
*my first time here and i’m having fun grin *
November 27th, 2007 at 9:24 am
Embrace it, babe- i know that’s horrible advice because it’s so hard to do, but ask him out for coffee or something
good luck!
xx
November 27th, 2007 at 9:28 am
It seems we’re both having these feelings (or similar ones). Since I fell totally in love with this boy in freshman year and was rejected, I’ve decided not to “like” anyone. But here we go. There’s this boy who just moved here whom, despite myself, I’ve gained a liking for. I’m resisting, but maybe something will come of it.
Maybe something will come of your situation. I’d tell you not to ignore your feelings, but that would be against my philosophy.
November 27th, 2007 at 9:50 am
I think you shouldn’t expect, in any case, that is. It just makes you sad even more when guys cant live up to your expectations. Just go with the flow.
November 27th, 2007 at 11:37 am
infatuation?
November 28th, 2007 at 12:13 am
Heh. That’s one of my fave feelings. What I hate is finding out he doesnt like you back, or he only wants sex.