Just a Thought..
Posted on July 10th, 2008. Filed under: Love & Relationships, Rantage.I’ve been surrounded with quite a few wedding-related shiz this year. Few people I know are planning to get married soon or next year, some I know have gotten married this year, I was a bridesmaid to a wedding last March and I’m going to be a bridesmaid to another wedding this October.
Getting married is freaking scary. The whole thing just came over me and I would be scared shitless. I don’t exactly know what’s my basis considering that I have the best married parents in the world (sure they have their ups & downs and it’s bliss for the most part) but holy moly spending your life with only one person? Freaaky! I guess I just haven’t found anybody. I just read my old blogspot posts and I was actually in love? How young and naive was I?
I guess I’ll just have to wait and see. I think I’m just in a cynical stage right now, I’m having my period after all. Juicynical much?!
July 10th, 2008 at 5:52 am using Mozilla Firefox 2.0.0.15 on Windows XP
I feel somewhat the same. Sometimes, I feel lonely for being single, but at the same time, I really don’t think I want to get into a relationship yet.
But, hey, we’re young. There’s still plenty of time.
July 10th, 2008 at 6:24 am using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Mac OS X
you’ll find that someday getting married is not that scary, even it makes you happier than ever…you will…
July 10th, 2008 at 8:01 am using Internet Explorer 7.0 on Windows XP
Personally, I am still being in doubt if there still exist nowadays couples who withstands this generations mishaps. Marriage for one has been an issue when it comes to relationships; that is, if true love is bounding them, then there they will fall eventually. True enough, marrying is one hell of a scary crap.
July 10th, 2008 at 8:17 am using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Windows Vista
You know, it’s scaring me too. I’ve had four close friends get married/engaged in the past two years, and as stupid as it sounds, I find that I can’t really relate to them anymore, when all they can talk about is…you know, marriage stuff. :P
July 10th, 2008 at 12:34 pm using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Windows XP
I’ve been with the same person for a long time now, and I don’t mind being with him for the rest of my life. But getting married still scares the hell out of me. :P
July 11th, 2008 at 3:13 am using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Windows XP
I adore weddings, but the whole idea of marriage scares me too. I’ve been in a serious relationship for the past couple years, and I can’t imagine spending my life with one person. Although I think my age might be a factor!
July 12th, 2008 at 9:21 am using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Mac OS X
It’s not only you, I am scared of ‘being stuck with one person for the rest of my life’ as well. I’m not in a ‘bind’ right now because uhh, I feel it would take me a long time to get used to it. Maybe I’m still a mama’s and papa’s girl kaya ayoko pa humiwalay sa kanila.
And I’m sure as hell that being married in real life is not all the time a happy ending like what we see in the movies and on TV. :|
July 12th, 2008 at 12:14 pm using Internet Explorer 7.0 on Windows Vista
uhm, being and committed with the same person all your life?
yah, sounds kinda freaky.
but if he/she is the right person, maybe that can be fun…
haha…
July 15th, 2008 at 7:54 am using Mozilla Firefox 2.0 on Windows Vista
I’m quite a romantic person but the thought of marriage right now freaks me out too! Maybe it’s because you haven’t found the one yet and you’re only 20. In time, you’ll probably find yourself ready to spend the rest of your life with someone.
July 15th, 2008 at 8:09 am using Opera 9.50 on Windows XP
NO WAY I’m not gonna marry summady without even buying a Leica camera or some kickass condo unit or something.
I dunno, I wanna stretch my singlehood until THIRTEH. Lol! But that’s not final.
So far, I dun really feel lonely even if I’m single. I dun even care if everybody else has their own lovelives - I got my life anyway.
May this comment sound anything but bitter.
July 15th, 2008 at 6:35 pm using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Windows XP
I got married this past year. It wasn’t that big of a deal, probably because we eloped.
July 16th, 2008 at 1:02 pm using Mozilla Firefox 3.0 on Windows XP
I think marriages and engagements are sweet and only hope the best for those involved (oo, pati kay James McAvoy at sa asawa niya, huhu XD). I prefer happy endings. :]
I haven’t really thought about marriage, though, as it’s too far ahead into the future for me, hahaha.